What is good BBQ and how would you describe a great meal.

I'm all for real food prepared with passion. I'm not a bigot about it. A friend was describing in apologetic tones how she baked some great ribs. I asked her were they tender, moist and have great flavor, yes she answered. Did you and the people you shared them with enjoy them, yes she answered. Then that is all that's important I replied. As a teacher and a competitor I'm all about education by putting amazing real BBQ in peoples mouthes. Not judging them because they enjoyed baked ribs.I'd rather let my 'que do the talking for me.